Hopedale History September 15, 2017 No. 332 "I'm Engaged!" Hopedale in September
Family (Memorial service for Bill Gannett.) Deaths <><><><><><><><><><> The stamp savings system was introduced into the schools in June, and the results have been most gratifying. Two-thirds of all the children in the grades have stamp books, and have purchased stamps to the amount of $342.23. In addition to this, 39 pupils have opened new savings bank accounts, and 35 have added to bank accounts previously opened. The children are not only encouraged to save, but they are taught to spend wisely. F. G. Atwell, Superintendent of Schools, 1909 In the South Hopedale Branch, Miss Caldwell is completing twenty-five years of faithful service as librarian. For fifty weeks of each year she has opened her home on Thursday afternoons so the residents in her neighborhood might borrow books and periodicals and use reference volumes. Her interest in the reading programs of her community has been much appreciated and the good-will of many friends goes to her in her retirement. The Branch Library has found a suitable location at the home of Mrs. Asa H. Jones, a place centrally situated in this fast growing district. Rachel C. Day, Librarian, 1948 Click here to see the history of the South Hopedale Branch Library. <><><><><><><><><><> "I'm Engaged!" January 29, 1899 Dear Sunie: I know that you are overwhelmed by the news that I am engaged. I thought that I would write a joint letter to father and yourself in order to break the news more gently. Now, however, I wish to let you know personally what a charming young lady I have captured. I sincerely hope that you will like her and am sure that she cannot help loving you. I suppose that we appear like mere children just out of school, without the knowledge or experience to guide us through this world, but be that as it may, for myself, I am absolutely gone heart and soul and think only of our coming marriage. Of course, I will not be able to live in the style to which I am accustomed at first, but I think that the mere fact of our starting in on a small scale will make us appreciate far more the time when I can afford to live more elegantly. I am working hard at the law office and in a few years, ought to be able to be making enough money to live, if not in luxury, at least in absolute comfort. I dined with Aunt Jessie and Uncle George tonight and spent a very pleasant evening. A week or two ago, Aunt Nannie invited me to dinner, and I have been asked out by several of my friends. Outside of this, I have not been indulging in gayety, as my whole time is taken up with my work. I read about you time and again in the papers, which portray you as adding new laurels daily to your social achievements. My engagement was written up quite a bit in the papers, Town Topics of January 12th cracking a joke at the expense of the Lexington young ladies. Give my love to Margaret, and kiss her for me for sending me that lovely Christmas token. I have had the grippe and been busy with pressing matters or would have answered sooner. Yours devotedly, Arthur J. Draper The engagement Arthur refers to was to Lily Duncan Voorhies of Lexington, Kentucky. He was the son of General William F. and Lydia (Lilla) Draper. From the context of this letter, it would seem that Sunie must be Arthur's step-mother, Susan. (General Draper's second wife) It was typed so it's not a matter of mistaking an s for an n. Also, it's hard to imagine that he would be calling her Susie, although Sunie seems a bit odd, too, considering how formal they were in some ways, such as their signatures. Jessie was Susan's sister and George was George Albert Draper, the general's brother. Nannie was Nancy Bristow Draper, wife of Eben Draper. Margaret, later Princess Boncompagni, was the daughter of Susan and the general. **********
August 18th
I write to inform you that I am engaged to be married to Miss Grace Engman of Lexington. That you may not think this a hasty or thoughtless step, I will say that I have known and been in correspondence with Miss Engman for over two years, and have always considered our marriage as more than a possibility. Before taking this step, I wanted to be earning my living and able to support a wife, a point which I have now reached. Some time ago, I reached the conclusion that marriage was a necessity for my success and happiness, but never pressed the point as you and Susan seemed to hold a different view. Of the young lady, I will simply say that she is my ideal of a lady with a character that you will admire. I feel personally a great deal more than this, but will allow you to judge for yourself instead of saying more. Hoping that you will not be too greatly surprised, and that you will not withhold your approval, I am Your loving son, Clare Hill Draper
Hopedale, where Memorial School is now. I've never come across photos of either Lily or Grace. Susan Preston Draper Gen. William F. Draper Arthur Joy Draper Clare Hill Draper Draper Family and Corporation Menu Ezine Menu HOME
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